Recently I went to see the movie Kinky with actors Vivica A. Fox, Robert Richard, Dawn Richard, Gary Dourdan, and more. Let's talk about the elephant in the room. Most women don't know what they want in the bedroom or they are afraid to ask for what they want for fear of being labeled a hoe or freak. So, we end up sexually frustrated on top of everything else going on in our daily lives.
If we can take charge in the OR room, courtroom, and classrooms we can take charge in OUR BEDROOMS. No one deserves to leave the bed unfulfilled. It's okay to watch porn or buy some toys to help spice up things to help get you to the finish line.
We as women also must get out of our heads. Sex for us is tied to our emotions. Whether you want to accept it or not we are emotional beings. If he has pissed you off or you are angry at your partner that orgasm is going to be even harder to reach.
Fix the internal issues before trying to change the sexual issues. There is sex therapist available for these types of hardships. We were made to procreate. Everyone should experience pleasure. We do not live in the 50s where only the men were meant to be satisfied and our needs were pushed to the side. I must get mine like you have to get yours.
Once you've fixed the inner issues then be open minded to trying new things. If there is no physical or mental harm is done you never know what lies out there for you. Being open and honest with your partner helps. You might not like it fast and rough. He might not like it when you ride him. Until these conversations take place you will never know. The same way you take those big girl panties off in the heat of the moment leave them off and tell daddy how you really like it.
The movie was interesting and eye opening, but it left a lot to be desired. I hated the way it ended. If you are interested in toy play or BDSM do your research, there is a whole community out there. I advise you to be safe and make sure both parties are comfortable and in agreement.
And while some may not agree with me being so frank and open that's your problem. Orgasms release endorphins in the body to help you release stress and relax. Have an orgasm today!
Remember I LOVE YOU!
If we can take charge in the OR room, courtroom, and classrooms we can take charge in OUR BEDROOMS. No one deserves to leave the bed unfulfilled. It's okay to watch porn or buy some toys to help spice up things to help get you to the finish line.
We as women also must get out of our heads. Sex for us is tied to our emotions. Whether you want to accept it or not we are emotional beings. If he has pissed you off or you are angry at your partner that orgasm is going to be even harder to reach.
Fix the internal issues before trying to change the sexual issues. There is sex therapist available for these types of hardships. We were made to procreate. Everyone should experience pleasure. We do not live in the 50s where only the men were meant to be satisfied and our needs were pushed to the side. I must get mine like you have to get yours.
Once you've fixed the inner issues then be open minded to trying new things. If there is no physical or mental harm is done you never know what lies out there for you. Being open and honest with your partner helps. You might not like it fast and rough. He might not like it when you ride him. Until these conversations take place you will never know. The same way you take those big girl panties off in the heat of the moment leave them off and tell daddy how you really like it.
The movie was interesting and eye opening, but it left a lot to be desired. I hated the way it ended. If you are interested in toy play or BDSM do your research, there is a whole community out there. I advise you to be safe and make sure both parties are comfortable and in agreement.
And while some may not agree with me being so frank and open that's your problem. Orgasms release endorphins in the body to help you release stress and relax. Have an orgasm today!
Remember I LOVE YOU!
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