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You aren't meant to be alone

God created Eve to help Adam. We were created to coexist with each other. I never understood why people say they are just going to be alone. God wanted us to procreate and multiply.

It's mainly because of the experiences that males or females have been through to make them say that, but deep down I don't believe they truly want to be alone. Yes, we may all have times where we don't want to be bothered but we are meant to love and break bread with one another.

You must fix your personal issues and deal with your past before you can give yourself entirely to someone else. If you are already married or in a long-term relationship, be open to fixing problems that arise during your relationship. Deal with that abuse, molestation, or abandonment and this goes for males and females. Yes males y'all have feelings you need to deal with also. We don't expect y'all to carry the world on your shoulders. We are here to help. If you can't give your all to the one you "claim to love" then you aren't ready to be in a committed relationship. This would help with our family structure today in the black community. Too many people are looking for love in all the wrong places or looking for someone to change them into the person they want to be.

CHILDREN WILL NOT KEEP ANYONE WHERE THEY DON'T WANT TO BE!!! Again, this goes for males and females. I personally can't comprehend someone discarding their own flesh and blood. When I sit back and think on it, I have to realize that I don't know what their childhood consisted of to make them into who they are today. At what point do we step up and say enough is enough? Who wants to break the family cycle or kill these generational curses? Changes can start with you.

Let's bring our villages back together. It takes everyone putting in effort to make it work.

Remember I LOVE YOU!!!

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