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Hmmm... she's not that interested in you sexually

I hate I must tell you this, but women are emotionally driven during sex. If you aren't meeting her needs or handling business outside of the bedroom, she's not going to be as excited in the bedroom. The little things matter to us.

If you know bills are due this week don't come home with a sob story and expect her to comfort you once y'all get in bed. She's running through her mind different scenarios and possibilities of how she can keep the lights on and have food on the table until you deliver. If she keeps catching you in lies or sticky situations, she's not going to get sticky for you. It's as little as may be cooking dinner one or two days a week since you get home first.

We as women just want to matter to you as much as you matter to us. There are some that expect diamonds and gold or the world but the majority of us just want quality time, attention, and for you to show us how much we mean to you while you put in the same amount of effort to this situation-ship, partnership, relationship, or marriage that we do.

Remember, I LOVE YOU!!!!!
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  1. Monique WilliamsOctober 14, 2019 at 9:11 PM

    Exactly...sometimes it seem like I dont have any hope. I do not want to be a maid or mother to a grown man. But there is men in their 50-60 that still dont understand this.

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    1. KLowOctober 27, 2019 at 5:49 PM

      You are so right. When it's your time he will come along. Just focus on you & my niece & nephews in the meantime.

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