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Unguarded

I am sexually liberated if I shall say so myself. My mouth has no filter majority of the time. If I say it I probably have been thinking it and trying to come up with the best way to say it “nicely.” I was not always so sexually open and that was due to my upbringing. You know our parents and grandparents didn’t talk about certain things out loud. It was a lot of unspoken rules in the black community. 


Baby when I got free from the mental hold of what a women is supposed to do & say sexually there was no holding me back. I can say how I want it and when I want it with no fear of guilt or shame. GROWN people have sex. These kids that y’all aren’t rising are too. But that’s another story for another day. 


I can look back over some of my life’s experiences and see how they helped me become the sexually vocal woman I am today. We were supposed to be getting ready for a night out with friends but a quickie was first on the list. Or that time I wouldn’t get off of the phone fast enough and he pulled a Baby Boy move. Yea, it surprised the hell out of me too. We women have our secrets and we know how to keep you coming back if it’s in the cards for us. Like that time I pulled a surprise on you and your eyes rolled to the back of your head and you went to sleep immediately afterwards. I still smile about that today.


These experiences made me take my power back. I can now tell you what I want and how I want it with confidence. If I have to make a call to set up an appointment I’m not afraid to express my need. We all need to let go from the top of the mountain peak often. Step up and take back your reins ladies. You can tell your partner what you need to achieve extreme gratification. You have a voice use it!!! They say most women hit their sexual peak at 40 but I hit mine before 35. Have fun & be safe while doing it!!!


Remember, I LOVE YOU ðŸ˜˜ 

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